Understanding


"Understanding is an art, and not everyone is an artist." I have read it somewhere, I used to think that I understand people like really understand them I'm the best adviser and I love to help everyone well, 
 I thought that to understand someone you need to put yourself in their situation to find the answer that why a certain person feels certain way.

For example if someone is always tired, and grumpy or get angry easily even on simple jokes then you have to look into their lifestyle to understand them the situation could be that they do 9-5 job and couldn't get any time for themselves or either they are teenagers and bored out of their mind from school and coaching by seeing through their life and imagining yourself at their place you can understand them and calm them down. 

I used to beleive in this method until today that I find out that understanding runs deeper then that too deep for some people to understand. And in my case it's hectic and can give you goosebumps.. I mean I just not understand a person, I feel what they are feeling and it's not pleasing it's weird I can feel their frustration in my bones, I can feel their heartbreak, their hopes, their smile everything they go through.

It's like if I'm having a deep conversation with someone or I'm focusing on someone and they tell me about their experiences, their dreams, and expectations I can feel the load of their feelings right there it's like hitting by a train of emotions I feel their longing, their sorrow and everything they feel. 

And then if I say something it's not just for them it's the answer for myself I don't need to imagine myself at their place I'm already at their place feeling everything they feel and I need to find an answer a way out a right answer to set myself free I need to reassure them I guess that's why I'm the best adviser. 

I can't pretend to understand you, I can't give you fake advice I'll have to go down the bottom of my heart the basics of my fundamentals to give you the right answer to reassure you the right way. It's the only way to set myself free from all your feelings and loads when you become calm, reassured & happy only then my heart can beat properly and it's not only if you are close to me the same reaction I have for everybody.

In my case understanding is deep and sacred it's not a thing that can be expressed in few words like "I understand you" the feelings and emotions should be exchanged as well not just words. 

Well in the end understanding is really an exhausting job because there's so many things are happening at the same time that's why I'm always exhausted by doing nothing. 

P.S.- Gosh.. I'm so deep anyone else out their with these super exclusive understanding features...

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